love - sex & discrepancies...

This is one of the special post in this, my personal blog as it is going to be co-authored by my friend 'ganesh'.

I am a 'platonic' lover (in his words) & he is a 'matter of fact' lover (in my words). We run across each other at some points but never did converge at an end!

I said 'love is the thing which binds you within yourself & with every other thing in the world'

He has a slightly different opinion though.
Ya i do. Hi.!! Ganesh

here. My definition of "Love towards an X":-> It is a mad inexplicable permanent attraction towards that X where X can be anything - your puppy, a person, gold, money, painting, music, physics, cars whatever. The following is my view point about the subset of this general case namely "Love towards a person"; In general, Love towards the 'opposite sex alone' has sexual desire at its base. i.e, There are some apparently platonic lovers who claim that just the memory of their lover is enough. A smile from her is a boon to be cherished for a million years; No sensual connection enters the scene, they swear. Ah Crap! If that's the case why can't they love a person from the same sex?!- (A careful read would make you understand that this is totally different from Homosexuality which has a sensual link. ) If you carefully observe, most of these so-called platonists would be having an opposite-sex lover only.

Back to Gokul..

I am not explianing more of my side now...
Both have some points supporting our theories & here, we are going to share our views inorder to reach a more acceptable idea about 'love'.

Before that we need your help!
Nothing big but to 'define love'. We want it to be in your words and not those of some dead men, which is quoted all over the world in books & magazines. Just tell us what you think is the defining quality of love.

Once we get idea about other people's perception of love, we would post our final draft.
So click comment & post your definition.

சற்று முன் தோன்றியது

இங்கேயும் அங்கேயுமாய் சில புள்ளிகள்,
கோலமிடப்படாமல்...
ஈரக்கூந்தல் வடித்த நீர்த்துளிகள் !!

படித்ததில் பிடித்தது

எண்ண அலைகளின் இரைச்சல்...

மௌனம்!

- கணேஷ்

எங்கேயோ படித்தது

தேர்தல் சுயம்வரத்தில்
போலி நளன்களின் கூட்டம்
கையில் மாலையுடன்
குருட்டு தமையந்திகள்!

கனவு

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நிஜத்தின் நிறைவேறா என் ஆசைகளை

நிறைவேற்றி வைக்கும் கருவூலம்...

போலியானது தான்! நிலையில்லாதது தான்!

ஆனால்...

நிலையற்ற நிஜமான போலி எண்ணங்களை

நித்தமும் எனக்கு தந்திடும் சொர்க்கம்.

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தாகத்தின் போது கூட

நிஜத்தின் நீர்வீழ்ச்சியை வெறுக்கிறேன்...

கனவின் பாலைவனத்தைக் கண்டு பரவசமடைகிறேன்!

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மோகத்தின் போது கூட

நினைவுகளின் முல்லையை வெறுக்கிறேன்!

கனவுகளின் முட்களை நேசிக்கிறேன்.

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மொத்தத்தில்,

நிஜத்தை வெறுக்கிறேன், நினைவுகளை மறக்கிறேன்…

நேசிக்கிறேன் ...!

கனவுகளை மட்டும்,

கண்மூடிக்கொண்டே...

SHUTUP - LISTEN!!!

After 21 years i realize that my mouth need rest... atleast momentary rest!


My amma used to say that she waited for more than 18 months to hear my first word since my birth. From then I shouted, yelled, yawped, complained, questioned, negotiated then argued, argued, argued...

Four years of Engineering taught me nothing but to argue. Argue in class, in canteen, and even in GD's!!! The last arguement i had was one of the best & conclusive!!! first of its kind, uh!

'I started arguing with myself to stop arguing.'

Afterall the mouth can be shut, so why dont give a try!

I still wonder why god/nature provided means to shut our mouth while the ears are kept open always!

Does the design requires us to listen always and to talk only when there is no other way?
Should i have listened more in the past rather than chucking worthless words?
should i have tried to understand the problem before discussing it?
had i miss the opportunity to laugh at other's stupidity?
had i miss a friend just because i never gave him time to speak?

I asked these questions to myself and to my surprise there wasn't any counter arguments within!
When there are no arguments to ponder upon, mind works fast to yield answer. (As generally believed, arguments don't always converge at a conclusion, however effective they might be. This is what i have learned after 21 years of survival)

So here i am preparing myself to celebrate my silence and to listen...
Hmmm...